I want to discuss the idea of "failure" with you.

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Lots and lots of people succeed online, but lots of people also fail. That could be said for anything where there is competition as there are always going to be winners and losers.

In saying this though, there are ways in which you can DRASTICALLY improve your chances of success and ultimately WIN within the affiliate marketing world.

Year over year I personally work with people online. I have seen pretty much everything imaginable, helped folks achieve some amazing things, but I have also seen my fair share of people fail.

There are common attributes and traits that I see with those that fail.

They have a "chink" in their armour, in particular within their "mindset".

I have documented the three things that are leading to this failure below and I would love you to take a second and have a read

The people that fail (and do so over and over again), have several things in common. In fact, 3 things in particular.

Chances are if you have not reached your version of "success", then you may fall into one of this categories. I have GREAT news though...

You can change your approach to success. If you read the following post, you are going to understand the main reasons why people fail and why you might be failing to create your dream business online.

There are a few things that I use to quickly determine whether or not someone will be successful online or not. These work 99% of the time (I am wrong on a rare occasion).

I know you are going to fail online if:

1. You want instant success and you believe that is possible. This is called the lottery.
   
   
2. You expect other people to do the work for you. This is only OK when you can afford to hire help and should not be done in the early stages of your business. 
3. You constantly ask people what they earn online. People that do this are looking for a quick fix. People earn loads online...$100's of BILLIONS per year. There is no reason to ever ask if someone is making online or not.

Thought I would just share these 3 things with you. These are the most common things I see and these are the things that people that are destined to fail ask.

If this is you, there is still hope. You just need to change the way you think about online success and you will be OK. Don't fall into the trap of wanting instant success, you want other people's success, or you want others to do the grunt work for you.

I would love to hear your feedback as to why you feel you may have failed in the past and/or things that have helped you overcome starting off on the wrong foot.

 Please drop a comment below :

Let me tell you two things

 

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During a prank, a student stuck a piece of paper on his classmate's back that read "I'm Stupid". The student asked the rest of the class not to tell the boy.

Intermittently, the students began to laugh on and off at the boy.

That afternoon in maths class their teacher wrote a difficult question on the board in which no one was able to answer it except the boy with sticker.

Amid the unexplained giggles, he walked toward the board and solved the problem.

The teacher asked the class to clap for him and removed the paper on his back.

She told him “It seems that you didn’t know about the paper your classmate had placed on your back."

Then teacher looked at the rest of the class and said: “Before I give you a punishment, let me tell you 2 things”.

“Firstly, throughout your life, people will always put labels on you. If your classmate knew about the paper, he wouldn't have stood up to answer the question”.

"Secondly, it's clear that he doesn't have a loyal friend among any of you to tell him about sticker”.

It doesn't matter how many friends you have it is the loyalty you share with your friends that matters.

If you don't have friends who you can depend on when your back is turned, friends who watch over you, protect you and who genuinely care about you, you are better off being alone.

According to the story, who do you think is stupid, the brilliant boy and the ones that tagged him with bad name?

Comment your response below👇

How to develop new skills

 

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If you want a job in an industry that requires different skills than those you currently have, there are many ways to expand your skill set or to develop your current skills for a better chance at promotions or raises.

Here are several ways you can develop professional skills:

1. Set goals for yourself. Setting specific goals to improve your career help you stay on track with your development. Make sure your goals are measurable, achievable and relevant to your profession or your goals. Then, consider organizing a timeline to achieve your goals by setting a beginning and end date, as well as smaller goals to achieve along the way.
   

2. Find a mentor. A professional mentor is typically a superior you respect and trust. Once you find your role model, you can reach out for informal meetings, which can then naturally develop into a professional relationship.

3. Seek feedback about strengths and weaknesses. You can ask superiors, colleagues or even friends or family about your strengths and areas for improvement. It is important to seek feedback from people who will give you honest critiques rather than automatic praise. Once you identify your weaknesses, you can focus on developing those skills.
   

4. Review job descriptions for positions you want.  These job descriptions will give you an idea of the transferable skills you have, as well as the job-specific skills you will need. Once you identify the skills you need, you can research job shadowing or education programs that can provide you with the necessary skill set to transition into that position.
   

5. Enroll in an online degree program. Companies often encourage employees to further their education with a degree, and some offer tuition assistance or reimbursement. If you are advancing your career with a related program, such as accounting and finance, you may also find that many of your credits are transferable.
   

6. Take continuing education courses in career-related fields. These courses are often taught by professionals with experience in their field. For some professions, continuing education courses are required to stay current in the industry. Many colleges and universities offer continuing education courses in a variety of fields.
   

7. Take advantage of company training.  Many companies use independent training departments with experts in different fields that train on specialized skill sets. Check in with your supervisor about what your company has to offer and which courses would be especially beneficial for your professional growth.
   

8. Participate in job shadowing. Job shadowing is a great way to learn more about the day-to-day responsibilities of another profession and to learn new skills. Generally, it is best to choose individuals who are experienced or perform well in their positions. Job shadowing usually involves following a professional while they perform their job duties and learning about different skills.
   

9. Join a professional association in your field. In a group setting, you have the opportunity to converse with colleagues about your industry and to discover skills you may want to develop. These professional associations are usually available on local, state, national and international levels.

HOW TO OVERCOME DEPRESSION OF PAIN

 

FIGHT UNTIL YOU OVERCOME

Chronic pain gets worse as changes in your body make you more sensitive to pain. You may start to hurt in places that used to feel fine.It can disrupt sleep and cause you to wake up at night. This can make you tired during and not as productive during the day. The ongoing pain can cause additional irritation and make it difficult for you to deal with others.

 If you have to care for children or work full-time, all this may make your life seem too challenging. These feelings can lead to irritability, depression, and even suicide.

Depression is one of the most common mental health problems facing people with chronic pain. It often makes someone's other medicalconditions and treatment more complicated. 

If you have pain, you may also have anxiety, irritability, and agitation. These are normal feelings when you're hurting. Usually, as pain subsides, so does the stressful response.But with chronic pain, you may feel constantly tense and stressed.

 Over time, the stress can result in different emotional problems associated with depression. Some of the problems individuals with both chronic pain and depression have include:

Altered mood

Anger

Chronic anxiety

Confused thinking

Sleep disturbances

Social isolation

Weight gain or loss

Work problems

How Can I Overcome Depression of Pain?

1. Exercise

Talk with your doctor to design an exercise plan that's safe and effective for you.Trips to the gym also help ease depression by releasing the same kind of brain chemicals that antidepressant medications are thought to affect.

2. Consult Therapist 

Some time with a therapist can teach you how to change these thought patterns and make you feel better.It's also a proven treatment for depression and can reduce symptoms of anxiety in those with chronic pain.

3. Make Someone Happy Everytime

Team up with a charitable association or even your family  to create a treatment plan, fellowship in love, there's so much joy, happiness, fulfillments and supernatural healings in giving.

 When chronic pain and depression are combined, the need to work with a doctor (God) is even greater.As you develop a plan, keep in mind that the ideal pain management plan will work a great deal.

Stay committed to the plan until you feel in control of your pain and depression and can fully live your life and do the things you enjoy.
 

HOW A LEADER CAN STRUCTURE MEETINGS TO MAKE ALL ATTENDEES FEEL HEARD

 

Most people will have to participate in meetings at some point in their lives, and many people do so on a regular basis. Meetings can take place at work, within an organisation, a sports group, a Parent Teachers Association, church group or one of a myriad of other committees.

A Chairperson may contribute to the success of a meeting, giving a sense of direction or purpose. Meetings are important strategical method that can be used to:

•  Generate ideas

•  Good Planning

•  Provide Solutions

•  Make Decision

•  Create and Develop Understanding

•  Give Room for Innovative Initiative

•  Pipeline a Sense of Direction

There are many different types of meetings; here we focus on those used to:

 1. Informing Meetings

These are the most straightforward meetings where one member, usually the chairperson, has factual information or a decision which affects all those present, which he/she wishes to communicate.  Such meetings tend to be formal as their aims are to give the members a real understanding and to discuss any implications or how to put such information to best use.

2. Consulting Meetings

These are meetings used to discuss a specific policy or innovation and can be used to get participants' views of such a policy or idea.  An example could be:

• Review a current policy
• State its deficiencies
• Suggest change
• Stress the advantages of such change
• Admit any weaknesses
• Invite comments

3. Problem Solving Meetings

These meetings are dependent upon the chairperson describing the problem as clearly as possible. Members should be selected according to their experience, expertise or interest and then given as much information as possible to enable them to generate ideas, offer advice and reach conclusions.

 Here is how we can make sure remote attendees feel heard just as much as those in the office:

1. Organize a smaller meetings

By organizing smaller meetings not more than 10, you can give more people the opportunity to speak without adding time to the meeting or cutting anyone off.

2. Assign Roles.

This may be a bit easier when you have a smaller meeting, but assigning roles is another solid way to make sure everyone is heard. You can assign a role to each attendee for each topic or subject you have in the agenda.

For example, one person can be the main speaker while discussing the first item on the agenda. Another person can chime in during the next. 

3. Use the right tools.

If you hold meetings virtually, or have remote team members, use tools that can allow each person the option to participate at their convenience. Using a tool like GoWall or GoToMeeting gives your remote participants the ability to “speak up” without feeling hidden behind their phones or computers.

Organisations, Schools, Societies and Clubs hold regular meetings to enable members to report and discuss progress and work in hand, to deliberate current and future planning. 

HOW TO OVERCOME STRUGGLES

 

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It is up to us to build and train our minds to be optimistic and unstoppable amidst trials and adversities in life. 

There are 5 practices to help you overcome your struggles and incapacitating feelings;

1. Push more hard

Struggle strengthens your character. The moments in our life that we are most proud of are oftentimes the ones where we overcame hardship to achieve something that is worth it. 

Do something that pushes your ability to improve more. Nothing feels better than the feeling that you are stronger and capable of far more than you ever imagined. Those people who are thriving and achieving their dreams today are a testament to how people can overcome anything against all odds.

 Obstacles help you grow in building strength, fortitude, and resilience. Every single time you face a problem, you overcome a mental hurdle.

2. Improve your expertise.

Encourage yourself to do more of what you're tired doing at the moment, not losing focus on the very path you've identified. If you're yet to identify one, then try to self improvement. Self improvement is defensive tool against oppression and discouragement at schools, marketplace, and workplaces. 

Further studies on your point of profession  distinguish pictures of your products from failure. 

3. Don't do everything alone.

God wants everyone that love him to prosper and live long. We're all need reliance. The inner strength that'll give you ability to more is where God usually comes in. Every good inspiration is from Him. Submit your ways to His hands so that He can order steps. Prov.3:1-6 .

Also, friends and family will play awesome roles to help you attain good milestones in life. These people are your friends and family who genuinely care, believe in you, and only want the best for you. They are the roots of your success. Building first relationship with God will help you gain access to everyone needed for your lifting.

4. Enjoy peace and solitude.
Now you may think that the best way to cure your problems is by drowning in alcohol and going out all night partying.  Know this, it’s not going to help you solve anything. Sometimes, we find the answers to our questions by being at peace and just reflecting on our thoughts. A much-needed break from the noise and chaos of the world is important to avoid mental and emotional weariness.

5. Don’t ever stop trying.

Never ever stop push! Have faith in yourself, how the Spirit of God that you have inside your heart can help you help to overcome those challenges. You were born a fighter, more than a conqueror.

Pursue a life that brings you progress and positivity. Life can be unpredictable and often intimidating especially when we are faced with a lot of problems and trials that can either make or break us. However, we should always remember to man up, no matter how many times life get us down.

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How To Handle Overcome

 

1. Keep your mouth about it

Similarly, they do not show off their success and try to prove others that they are successful. They are just busy with themselves and do not care about the titles that other people may give them. So the first thing you should do after you succeed is do not show off. Just do what you were doing, work on yourself and do not worry if people will know about your success or not. It does not matter.

2. Celebrate

Once you manage to shut up about your success, the next important thing is to reward yourself for coming this far and achieving success. When we keep working without any result or even after we achieve some milestone, we lose the taste of success. Rewarding ourselves gives us the feeling of achievement and as a result, our body generates chemical called dopamine that makes us feel fulfilled and happy. This tricks our body and makes us want more dopamine. Consequently, it boosts our energy and drives us to do more and achieve more. That is why it is important to celebrate even our smallest success and feel the taste of achievement.

3. Get back to work

After succeeding, we should not go overboard celebrating our success. Once we refill our energy and motivation, it is time to get back to work and move towards the next goal or milestone. If we celebrate long enough, we will get used to it and develop a habit of “partypreneur” who parties more than they achieve. Or if we don’t get back to work soon enough, we will get satisfied with our result and become comfortable. We can find lots of examples of people who once achieved great results but now are satisfied with their current conditions and do not stretch themselves no more. All they do now is to tell that they have made it or talk about what they used to do. Those people will no longer improve themselves and gradually go back to mediocrity. 

5. Keep the balance

Finally, we should not forget why we are doing this and who we are doing it all for. Probably all entrepreneurs get started with the purpose of providing better life for their families. Hence, once they start to achieve success and build wealth, they get lost in the “game” and forget about their initial purpose, which is their family. 

The most memorable moments are those that we enjoy spending with our families, children and friends.

 If you want happiness for a lifetime, help somebody.” For centuries, the greatest thinkers have suggested the same thing: Happiness is found in helping others.

KNOW IF YOUR BUSINESS IDEA IS WORTH PURSUING

An idea is just the start. It is the very early beginning of a product or service, and the idea stage is a long, long, long way from a successful business.

Things you must consider before executing your idea;

➡️ Will this business support the lifestyle I want? 

➡️ Is here proven demand for the product I am going to sell? 

➡️ Is there a clear value proposition that will make my product unique in the marketplace? 

➡️ Is there a clear way to market and sell my product or service through existing channels?

Create a Minimum Viable Product. The very best way to find out if your idea is worth pursuing is to create a minimum viable product;

1. Try it Out.

2. Seek Feedback Regularly.

3. Access the Level of Passion in Responses.

4. Be Excited in the Early Stages.

5. Market research can also help you choose the best geographic location in which to launch your new business.

WHAT ARE YOU PASSIONATE ABOUT?

 

WHAT IS  MY PASSION?

I'm passionate about self-development and self-improvement in my personal life. I'm always looking to challenge myself and learn new things. ...

Self-improvement and learning new things will make you seem like a great person for people around to be confidence in what you do. Improving Self is diligently seek to know those things that bring about or prompt beauty right from the Heart.

Beauty artistic decors from the mind radically influence several impressions and such is health to your confidence in rebirth of more exploring and landmark inventions.

These tips can outrightly help you to deem fit the talents in you. See through the following mirrors:

• I love competitive baking! Growing up, I really enjoyed baking with my grandmother on the weekends. ...
• "I know it sounds a little silly but I'm really passionate about the time I spend with my friends playing Dungeons and Dragons. ...
• "I'm passionate about sculpting.

What is your Passion about?

Do not be afraid to start as a failure. Remember, an empire is not built in a day.

PROTECT YOUR FAMILY

 

NEHEMIAH 4:14

"And I looked, and rose up, and said unto the nobles and to the rulers and to the rest of the people, “Be not ye afraid of them; remember the Lord, who is great and fearsome, and fight for your brethren, your sons and your daughters, your wives and your houses.”

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We Fight for Our Families by Standing Firm

As soldiers of the Lord Jesus Christ, our posture need never be one of retreat. We know that we stand firm by clothing ourselves in the Lord’s armor and strength (Ephesians 6:10–20).

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UNDERSTAND WHY YOU ARGUE

 Understanding the purpose of argument

Argument is part of every relationship. But when you argue understand the   purpose. Never use the words you don't mean at the time of argument because you will live to regret it.

 The purpose of argument is to make yourself heard, to express your point of view, to make your partner see reason why he/she should support your point of view.

 The purpose of argument is not to hot your partner. Words are seeds, when you use demeaning/abusive words during argument you will be doing an irreparable damage to your relationship.

 So choose your words carefully. If you are upset better stop the argument, don't say anything. It is better to be silent for few minutes than to sorrow for years.

HOW ANGER CAN IMPROVE YOUR LIFE

How can anger improve your life?

Arguments and frustrations are all part of a relationship, as long as physical violence is not involved.

 Hiding anger in an intimate relationship can be detrimental. For example, if your partner has done something that made you angry and you hide it, your partner will not know they’ve done something wrong and will continue to do so. 

You will feel frustrated and then resentment will follow which will surely affect your relationship. Any justifiable expression of anger aimed at finding a solution will strengthen your relationship rather than hurt it.

 The man who is angered by nothing cares about nothing.

If your anger is just pent up, with no healthy outlet for it, it’s going to be directed to innocent people and innocent situations,” 

If you’re on social media arguing with other people, you’re just adding fuel to your anger.

Focus on what you strongly desire to change within yourself. It is not your boss or overwhelming responsibilities that make you scream at people . You should be angry that it has taken so long for you to realise that you have the power to change your circumstances. Use your anger to initiate the positive shifts you need to change your life.

 If someone is doubting your ability, this is the best time to show them whatever the challenges, you will overcome them and come out a winner. 

If you’re stuck in a rut, use your anger to create something for yourself, start a new business or do something you’ve always wanted to do.

Make anger your fuel and motivation to do the things you want to achieve. Channel your anger into something worthwhile, positive and creative and your life will become better in Jesus name.

SUCCESS CODE

 

If success is ocean, what distance can you cover?

It must be through a serious heed to instructions. They're powerful codes for a great accomplishment. Whatever is worth doing, it's worth doing well.

We have different assignments and callings, just as our faces and attributes are different. 

God is very dynamic in dealings and creations. 

The principles of getting things done are the same everywhere.

They're refurbish discipline, towards making a better person. Such like; 

1. DESIRE

God has created every sane human being with desires. We are born with an instinct of passion. 

Nobody teaches a day old baby she needs milk, as soon as she's delivered, she desires the breast milk and starts to grope for where she can get at the mother's breast.'

As we grow, our wants enlarge, grow, bigger and become more complex. Without a visionary goal. 

'Desire what is good always, and such will help you to find the right direction to life.'

2. Decision

Make a strong decision.

After we have had a real and cogent mind to carry out certain mission, our next action is to make a decision on how to get that it done. 

The stronger our DECISION is, the easier it will be for us to have a successful achievement in whatever may be our desires.

 If decision is weak, it will be very difficult to make an headway in any pursuit.

3. DETERMINATION

You may have a laudable desire, make a strong decision, failures can still lurk on our way. 

Determination is what determines destiny. It's not the devil, witches, or wizards that truncate the destiny but lack of focus. If a white hot obsession is developed with determination, impossibility does not exist. 

A person of strong faith has a heavy duty payload of determination.

 Determination is a quality in any person who want to accomplish something in life but refuses NO for an answer.

PERSISTENT DISCIPLINE

This is what separate the successful people from the sleeping ones. 

This is what differentiate Success from Failure.

Good desires, supported by strong decision, fired by a strong determination, foretaste successful achievement. 

A life without discipline is a disaster with no remedy. On  final and note,respect for righteous discipline is what dictate eternal fate.

Prosperity is in You.

TRUTHS YOU MUST KNOW

 

 

How do you feel 

When you meet your classmates, and it seems like he/she has accomplished their   dreams 

And you're not yet close to yours? 

So many thoughts run through your mind, right?

First, you think God has not been fair to you.

How about the ones you meet on the street wearing dirty cloths  and still struggling for survival ? 

Do you get the same thoughts running through your mind?

I guess, NO.

Don't forget too that some are already dead.  

Somehow it feels natural to have that  feeling of jealous for those mates who seem better off,  but it is really unnecessary.

There is no room for regrets,

We are all different and our paths to greatness are also not the same in distance.

Some might have arrived earlier before you and some  after you, but whatever level you find yourself in life, 

Please keep trying to break limitations and move further.

Celebrate the success of others, its an indication that yours too shall surely come.

Life is not about competition, do not be in a race with anyone; remember,  we may seem to be reading the same book but different chapters at different times.

What you're  passing through today;

Write it down because one day the world would be ready to read it,  they'll become part of your success story.

There's no height you cannot attain, believe in yourself, define your goals,  recognize distractions and don't stop striving.

Spend time teaching yourself, because those things that mainly take people to the top are the things they devoted their time to develop.

Don't be intimidated by your friend's    success, the sky is wide enough for birds to fly without touching one another. 

Emotional Therapy

 

1. Take a look at the impact of your emotions

Intense emotions aren’t all bad.

“Emotions make our lives exciting, unique, and vibrant,” Botnick says. “Strong feelings can signify that we embrace life fully, that we’re not repressing our natural reactions.”

It’s perfectly normal to experience some emotional overwhelm on occasion— when something wonderful happens, when something terrible happens, when you feel like you’ve missed out.

So, how do you know when there’s a problem?

Emotions that regularly get out of hand might lead to:

• relationship or friendship conflict
• difficulty relating to others
• trouble at work or school
• an urge to use substances to help manage your emotions
• physical or emotional outbursts

Find some time to take stock of just how your uncontrolled emotions are affecting your day-to-day life. This will make it easier to identify problem areas (and track your success).

2. Aim for regulation, not repression

You can’t control your emotions with a dial (if only it were that easy!). But imagine, for a moment, that you could manage emotions this way.

You wouldn’t want to leave them running at maximum all the time. You also wouldn’t want to switch them off entirely, either.

When you suppress or repress emotions, you’re preventing yourself from experiencing and expressing feelings. This can happen consciously (suppression) or unconsciously (repression).

Either can contribute to mental and physical health symptoms, including:

• anxiety
• depression
• sleep issues
• muscle tension and pain
• difficulty managing stress
• substance misuse

When learning to exercise control over emotions, make sure you aren’t just sweeping them under the rug. Healthy emotional expression involves finding some balance between overwhelming emotions and no emotions at all.

Allow yourself to take every moment of pain for giving. It's not necessary that you must give money, but let fatigue of pain or insecurity go away and smile. Laugh to situations, and sometimes understand it as the errors of the moment, then move on.

• give.
• make someone happy.
• pray.

You'll be peaceful by making others happy. Such are sacrifices you must pay to get over your emotions.