Understanding the purpose of argument
Argument is part of every relationship. But when you argue understand the purpose. Never use the words you don't mean at the time of argument because you will live to regret it.
The purpose of argument is to make yourself heard, to express your point of view, to make your partner see reason why he/she should support your point of view.
The purpose of argument is not to hot your partner. Words are seeds, when you use demeaning/abusive words during argument you will be doing an irreparable damage to your relationship.
So choose your words carefully. If you are upset better stop the argument, don't say anything. It is better to be silent for few minutes than to sorrow for years.
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